Go visit the picture thread and maybe then I'll tell you that your boyfriend should run an ICS (that one big mod yeah) server to get female skins in multiplayer.

i think you could go on sof2files.com and search for some female skins then upload these to the server. then you would be able to use those skins in your game

Here you go, add these skins to your server /base/mp folder. Keep in mind any connecting players will also have to download the skin(s), whether they are going to use them or not. It's how a pure server works. Also you can only select these skins in a DeathMatch type game, where everyone has an individual skin choice, otherwise you'll have a lot more modifying to do... like creating a modded map

Unless someone corrects me...

http://www.sof2files.com/sort.files?game=SoF2&cat=807&ref=806

Heh oops, I did see that pic already... just forgot that it was you.   I didn't know that you were a girl until you said so in this topic.... which is probably a compliment on a shooter forum.  

There is no way u can select female skins in gametypes other than deathmatch. So that's why we (ICS team) have 1 female skin in each team in the ICS maps. Go check out the skins here: http://www.planetsoldier.com/ics/skins.html